The Entire Nation is Watching, Will HPISD Take a Stand For Jon Langbert?
Last week Park Cities People brought you the story about Jon Langbert, a local dad who was told he could no longer serve as a leader or wear the uniform for his son’s Boy Scouts of America troop, pack 70 at University Park Elementary, because he is gay.
His sexual orientation was never a secret, he told the pack leader he was gay and asked if it would be a problem before he agreed to be the popcorn sales volunteer. He was issued a shirt and took over the fundraiser earning $13,000, a $9,000 increase over the previous year.
But when some non-volunteer dads complained, the national debate began. Langbert’s experience initially sparked controversy in the Park Cities and Dallas but soon the entire country was watching.
And Highland Park Independent School District is sticking to their story, the Boy Scouts of America can continue to meet in district buildings that Langbert’s tax dollars support.
Highland Park Independent School District said it has a long-standing practice of allowing community groups to use its facilities. The policy is designed to not discriminate against any person or organization.
What about groups that discriminate?
In addition to several other national media outlets that have contacted Langbert about interviews over the next few days, he has made appearances on local news CBS, FOX and ABC, as well as radio station KRLD. Here are a few of the others that have taken interest.
34 comments to "The Entire Nation is Watching, Will HPISD Take a Stand For Jon Langbert?"
Also, how do we know that they don’t volunteer at other things? I do not volunteer my time to my childrens lacrosse or football teams, but I do coach soccer, baseball and basketball. So can I comment on those sports that I coach, but not the ones that I don’t volunteer in?
If the 2 blogs were put in front of me, I would have guesses that his comments came from PC residents and the comments on the PCP blog came from his followers. Not exactly sure what that says about the folks that are posting here, but I’m sure it’s something…
It is called a “pack” as well–as in Pack Meetings, etc. Productive comment though! Tell Abigail that I said, “Hi!”
@Merritt – do you suggest HPISD kick Troop 70 out of UP Elementary?
BSA is a private organization and has the right to set its own policies. HPISD is not a private organization though. Since it is funded by all citizens, tt should not be allowing organizations of any type that discriminate, exclude, or otherwise denigrate any human being to use any of its facilities.
The Girl Scouts is an organization expressly for girls, or people with XX chromosomes. Hence the “Girl” Scouts. But they do not discriminate against girls or women who are lesbian. They take the appropriate, neutral approach when it comes to this matter — they don’t expressly promote gay issues, but they don’t condemn them either. And they certainly don’t prevent girls or women who are gay, from participating.
In contrast, the Boy Scouts is an organization expressly for boys, or people with XY chromosomes. Hence the “Boy” Scouts. But they DO DISCRIMINATE against boys and men who are gay. They outwardly prohibit such boys (or men serving as leaders) from participating.
What kind of message does that send to youth & teenagers who may be trying to accept who they are, or for people who have a gay brother or father? It tells them that they are somehow inferior, or less worthy than their peers.
Boys who are gay, or who are presumed to be gay by their classmates in school, are much more likely to be bullied & harrassed by other kids, and more likely to commit suicide in response to being abused, and not knowing where or to whom to turn for help.
Just last month alone, 5 boys (aged 13 to 18) committed suicide after being bullied for being gay, or being presumed to be gay — including 13 year old Asher Brown of Houston.
Many people are never going to be okay with homosexuality. And that’s okay. But we probably aren’t also going to agree with everyone’s religious beliefs, political affiliations, style of clothing, or taste in food, either. But we have to learn to embrace each other, and find our unity through our strength in our diversity — which includes race, gender, religious beliefs, political affiliations, and yes, our sexual orientation. That’s what the United States of America is (or should be) about.
Something the Boy Scouts of America could learn.
cub scout pack 70
and boy scout troop 70
are two separate entities.
The Park Cities are traditional & conservative, but I’d like to think that we’re tolerant of gay people too. The Park Cities has the most highly educated adults in Texas, and many of the people who live in our community are leaders of major businesses & organizations, as well as lawyers, doctors, and other professionals. I find it very hard to believe that people in those occupations would never interact with someone who is openly gay.
Furthermore, I’d like to think that our community would stand up for one of our neighbors who is being unfairly discriminated against. (Even if there is nothing more we can do about it).
This may also have to do with geography too — the Park Cities is very close to downtown, Oak Lawn & Cedar Springs, which is the epicenter of gay Dallas. I’m not sure the “outer suburbs” (Plano, Allen, Frisco) would be as tolerant of gays.
The (unofficial) rule of thumb for gay people moving to Dallas, is to “live no further north, or east, of the boundaries of Loop 635.”
There is a reason for that. IJS.
However, the schools could stop supporting the Boy Scouts in other ways, such as not letting them do the morning anouncements at UP or whatever it is they let them do–things not covered by that special law protecting the BSA and other “patriotic groups.” Just a thought.
I applaud Jon Langbert for being open about his sexual orientation. There are so many gay people who don’t dare to. And as we can see, a lot of them are legislators who get outed as gay or bisexual by their own mistakes.
In less than 288 hours, a wave will hopefully wash all these hypocrites out of office and we will begin a return to government by the people, for the people. It is well known the Boy Scouts do not accept the lifestyle of gays. If you DO NOT agree with a group’s values, DO NOT JOIN IT.
I am not a member of the Democratic party, the NAACP, a labor union, a mosque, MoveOn.org, Amnesty Intl, the Sierra Club, Log Cabin Republicans, a gang or mafia. Why? Because I DON’T believe in their values.
True story – 6 years ago I’m driving four 11 year old park cities boys to the movies. I ask one of them, “Where’s your sister today?” He answers, “she’s going shopping with my uncle David, he’s my gay uncle from LA and he is a film producer. He is so cool.” My son pipes up, “I have a gay uncle John and an aunt Kevin. They’re awesome.” Boy number 3 says, “I have an aunt Susie, she’s a lesbian and her wife is Darla. When I go visit them they take me EVERYWHERE and buy me tons of presents!” Boy number 4 lets out a huge sigh and says, “I wish I had a gay aunt or uncle. My family is so BORING.” Two of these boys have since made Eagle, btw.
Times they are a changin’, the boy scouts are a wonderful organization for boys and their fathers. They should welcome all family’s, no matter their race, religion or sexual orientations to join them in all of the wonderful learning and character building things that they have to offer. It’s about family love, all family’s. This man and his boy have been wonderful contributors to the local (pack, den, troup – whatev’s), it’s time for the BSA to revisit their policies, and if they can’t be inclusive and they cling to their discriminative ways – off our public school property’s is where they belong.
You people out there who, in issues like this, just default to calling everyone who doesn’t jibe with your view, Nazi’s and bigots. No, you’re the moronic knuckledraggers that don’t take time to weigh the issues rationally. That also makes you irrational by definition.
There is no movement to take this homosexual and excommunicate him or to lynch him or any such thing. This avowed homosexual is whining to everyone who will listen (which is, unfortunately, all you enablers of liberal conformity and selective believers of Biblical principles) because the Boy Scouts, a private organization, excused an avowed homosexual from having a ‘leadership position’. That simple policy was based on Biblical reasoning.
Nice, really nice.
Merritt’s question for this post was what HPISD will do. Answer: nothing. Someone could suggest an alternative to illegally refusing to let Boy Scouts meet in school buildings. But HPISD won’t do that either.
Amen to that. I think that American society, in general, is becoming more tolerant towards gay people. I think the younger generation — as in our kids — view the whole thing as a “non-issue” for them.
When I was younger, I’ve said some not-so-great things about gay people. I don’t think it was because I hated gay people, but it was a lot easier for me to use slurs against gay people to make myself seem more “macho” and “one of the guys” as I was on the high school football team. Furthermore, I couldn’t possibly understand why a guy would be attracted to another guy. For me, as a straight man, it just seemed strange.
Several years ago, I found out that my nephew is gay and after hearing about the things he’s gone through & challenges he’s faced because of being gay (he’s from Virginia) — it made me re-evaluate my positions on some things in life. Looking back on what I did and said 20 years ago, sometimes makes me a little embarrassed. But, life is a learning process.
I’m a Republican & I’m not an Obama fan; however, I still never thought we would see an African-American president, at least not in my lifetime. In a few years, we could possibly see our first female US president.
Society changes very, very slowly, but American society is slowly becoming more tolerant (and in some places, totally accepting) of gay people. For those people who are gay, or who have relatives/family members or friends who are gay — know that it will get better.
http://www.newsweek.com/2010/01/08/the-conservative-case-for-gay-marriage.html
we must never forget that wars were fought for the right to have a reality TV show and corresponding book deal. We must have our freedom to strike out immediately, with as little thought or investigation as possible, when we see an act of social injustice, but retain our freedom to take great umbrage at those that criticize us without “having all the facts.” We must fight for our freedom to resort to name calling and character assassination when others can’t seem to agree with us, but be quick to claim such tactics as “off limits” when used against us. Above us, we must fight to maintain, nay I say expand, our rights and abilities to post anonymously on the internet, so that we may say those things we have not the courage to say in person or by our own names, because things were pretty boring before the internet. Now I have to go, my blue face paint is running.
Pedophilia is a problem that warrants keeping adults away from the BSA. Being gay is a completely separate consideration and has no bearing on Jon’s ability to be an honest, effective leader.
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